Mom Reacts To Harsh Backlash After Chopping Teen’s Hair On-line

One mom’s type of disciplining her teen daughter isn’t going over nicely on social media–and she or he may care much less. However the backlash to her technique was so intense that the mom later employed the teenager in an “I’m not a sufferer” video and revealed a couple of explainer clips. All of which solely fueled accusations of abuse and jealousy.

It began with a TikTok video of the lady’s punishment–a giant chop. The preliminary footage reveals the mom on-camera explaining that her child “thinks it’s extra necessary to be fairly than educated, extra necessary to be a observe physique than a frontrunner.” 

Afterward, the mom propped up the digicam whereas explaining that she’s “not a mother or father that likes to make use of bodily self-discipline.” 

The teenager was rocking giant field braids with red-ish roots on the time. She tells her daughter, “come right here, you’re going to study at this time,” and proceeds to yank the lady by a entrance braid. The mom cuts the braid off, leaving small scraps of the teenager’s pure hair. When the teenager objected with a “mother,” the woman went off.

“Don’t mother me, no. You had your warning, you had your probability. I advised you to hear, I advised you cease disobeying my guidelines. I advised you being cute ain’t sh*t when you’ve got no training. I advised you cease disobeying me, I advised to hear and do as you’re purported to, I advised you to do good in class, I advised you to do your every day routine,” the mom stated. “And also you’re but to do any of it, and also you thought you had been disobeying me at this time, and I used to be not coming to chop this hair off. You’re sadly mistaken since you thought being fairly was so a lot better than being educated or listening to your mother proper.”

As she ranted, the grown-up snipped off the teenager’s hair one braid at a time. In the meantime, the teenager stood there, sneaking shocked seems to be on the recording digicam. Lastly, when the mom completed the botched massive chop, she shoved the teenager’s head towards the digicam. She stated, “sure, that is what occurs while you don’t hearken to your mother.” 

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— Bl💞ck B@rbies (@Its_The_Barbies) December 10, 2022

Mom Has Daughter Clarify Why She’s ‘Not A Sufferer’ Then Presents Her With A Wig

Virtually instantly, individuals on-line began weighing in on the mom’s choice. Whereas some agreed along with her technique, others slammed it. Neither swayed the girl into reconsidering her self-discipline technique. As an alternative, she filmed one other video along with her daughter on the identical day as the massive chop.

Within the follow-up, the mom stands partially off-camera whereas the daughter and her butchered chop are in full view. She begins by asking her daughter questions, together with whether or not she feels traumatized or abused. With a straight face and calm tone, the teenager responded “no” to every query. Then, the mom requested if the massive chop was a “higher type of self-discipline” than bodily self-discipline, and the teenager responded, “sure.” 

Afterward, the mom reminded the teenager that she loves her and enforced the punishment to “make [the teen] a greater particular person.” Then, she runs down a how-many-times checklist, attempting to level out that she’s allegedly been having ongoing points with the teenager.

“I didn’t embarrass you, you embarrassed your self, proper,” the girl requested.

And the movies didn’t cease there–she shared extra footage questioning the daughter, explaining their bond, and finally, presenting her daughter with a prolonged wig. The daughter seems completely happy as she tries on the wig whereas agreeing along with her mom’s line of questioning.

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Lady Justifies Why She Chopped Her Daughter’s Hair Off

The movies began to realize traction final week. About two days in the past, the mom gave one other sequence of updates. This time, she slammed critics for his or her commentary, notably ladies within the intercourse work trade.

“Should you’re a prostitute, should you’re a stripper, should you’re an OnlyFans lady or a TikToking, Instagram ‘doing it for present,’ you would by no means give me recommendation on parenting as a result of your mother and father already screwed up a very long time in the past,” the mom stated.

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In one other video, she declared that she may “care much less” in regards to the feedback, likes, and views. She claimed the massive chop risk was lingering for a yr however that her daughter didn’t consider her, and she or he didn’t consider herself. So lastly, she stated, she stood on her phrase. She additionally denied accusations that she feels jealous of her teen daughter.

 “After exhausting so many various kinds of self-discipline, writing strains, grounding, and taking away, doing all of that, it doesn’t matter,” the mom stated. “Once I ask her to not go on the apps, she makes a brand new one and continues her badness, and does what she needs to do. I’m not going to take a seat right here and clarify to you guys what actually occurred trigger I’m not right here to embarrass my daughter. I’m right here to show my daughter.”

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Social Media Reacts To Mom Chopping Off Her Daughter’s Hair

In the meantime, the innanet doesn’t appear to assume the mom is instructing her daughter a lot–if something. Maintain scrolling to see the chatter surrounding the mom’s actions:

The kid cares about her seems to be —> her mom unceremoniously cuts off her hair (implying that she’s eradicating a part of her magnificence) as punishment —> the kid now sees that not being lovely is a punishment, ergo dangerous.

— Ꮶ🪞Ꭹ (@IfYouSeekKay) December 11, 2022

The mother or father who reduce off their little one’s hair for prioritizing seems to be over training was not simply emotional abusive, that’s bodily abuse. Is her hair not a part of her?

Additionally…. She taught her to not prioritize seems to be over training by…prioritizing altering her seems to be?

— Supernova Momma (@SupernovaMomma) December 11, 2022

When moms reduce their daughters hair off as a type of “punishment”, it’s by no means about instructing a lesson. It’s abuse.. Ladies perceive the significance of hair for different ladies & particularly little women. It’s about humbling their daughters & making their daughters really feel lower than.

— Bella Goth 💓 (@LilSexyCommie) December 12, 2022

Say bruh, I’m not arguing with y’all about abuse. How about I yank your ass up and reduce off your hair to examine your speculation. Let’s conduct a science experiment and see should you really feel abuse after I’m achieved

— Supernova Momma (@SupernovaMomma) December 11, 2022

Your mother being your bully is the nastiest shit anybody can ever expertise, worse for a woman.
The anger she has whereas chopping these locks is from jealousy and nothing else, the lady is Nonetheless prettier than her even with the hair reduce off anyway. https://t.co/3TmqqT9Jma

— Uncle Ras Dartte’ (@Dartte_45) December 12, 2022

A mother on tiktok CUT HER DAUGHTERS HAIR OFF, and is speaking about it’s as a result of she’s placing magnificence at the beginning else… ALL WHILST USING A FILTER!???

You new era mothers are one thing else man. Emotional little one abuse is simply as dangerous as bodily. She’s must go to JAIL!

— Soph ✨🇯🇲 (@Signedbysophiee) December 11, 2022

This mother on tiktok reduce her daughters hair, posts the video and after receiving hate she wanna flip the feedback off and maintain gaslighting her daughter by making movies saying issues like “they appearing such as you traumatized, they act like you’re the sufferer” bitch trigger she is!

— Future (@SUNNYYY_D) December 10, 2022

Was coming right here to say this too…

My mother had an analogous expertise rising up; had her hair reduce off as punishment & this is without doubt one of the evilest of shit a mom may do to hurt their daughter. I wished to seize mama’s necklace & choke her out for this video https://t.co/yrGrdwEd1E pic.twitter.com/ozk3crsFuq

— ✨🌞 Jennicka 🌑✨ (@jennicka_bacon) December 12, 2022